Monique talks about her own views of open relationships when she visited Hot 97′s Morning Show. She also discussed her 82lb weight loss. Years ago, during her interview with Barbara Walters Monique dished her thoughts on a open relationship with her husband, Sidney, she revealed:
“Could Sid have sex outside of his marriage with me? Yes. That’s not a deal-breaker. That’s not something that would make us say, ‘Pack your things and let’s end the marriage.”
What if her husband cheated on her?
“What if it’s 20 times? So what? We’ve been best friends for over 25 years, and we truly know who we are. Oftentimes, people get into marriages and they don’t know who they’re laying next to. I’m very comfortable and secure with my husband.”
Now, Mo’Nique talks about open relationships in a different way. She wants more honesty and less involvement with sex. She said:
“When I did that interview, I didn’t realize the king that I had. I was just being old Mo’Nique and having my old ways. I was an entertainer on the road, it goes for men and women. People automatically [assumed], ‘Oh because he’s so fine, Mo’Nique is going let him do anything.’ That actually had nothing to do with that and it actually backfired on me. My ego got in the way. I thought I was saying to women, “You can have your cake and eat it too girl” because I was doing this but then it backfired. Now that I understand what I have, there is not another man on the face of this earth that can compare to mine in my humble opinion. Every woman should feel that way about her man. So if you are in the car right now with your man, touch him.”
“When you really take the energy and pay attention to your relationship, and put your all into a relationship and love him in a way where your momma didn’t teach you to love a man. Neither one of you are going to want to go anywhere because you are enjoying each other so much.”
“We are in an open relationship because we are honest. See, when I said an open relationship people automatically thought sex, sex, sex. An open relationship now means to us, there are no secrets. There is nothing that my husband doesn’t know about me and there is nothing that I don’t know about him. Some people are laying with strangers. They are so closed, they are laying with a stranger. You have to tell me your business but not your man? You are in a closed relationship. When it’s open you are so honest and can’t wait to leave to get to your man.”
Mo’Nique also comments about her weight loss. She said:
“I tweet every morning my workouts because I wanted women to see, especially us big women, that you don’t have to let them cut you and suck it out, you don’t have to let them staple you up, you don’t have to let them give you a pill, you don’t have to let them put a band around your organs. If you just put the work in baby, I promise you it comes off. Now, I’m three years in. ..When I watch the Parkers, and I watch the re-runs, I know I was tipping about close to 300.”
“I am the best Mo’Nique I’ve ever been in my life. Right now. I still have a ways to go but I feel amazing.”
Mo’Nigue explains what motivated her to loss the weight:
“[...]In my mind, I believed what I was saying. I was this big, beautiful, sexy woman, and I still believe that. When I had to step back and look at the damage I was doing, to myself, it made me say ‘Okay sis you got these babies,’ and I’m 45, the twins are 7, Michael is 9, Chalon is 22, I want to meet their babies…”
Way to go Mo’Nique!